Family Led Change
Here at Help for You - Rosemary Brown we acknowledge and recognise the incredible value family add to influencing positive change for those you care about. And we know how the evils of alcoholism and addiction, takes no prisoners - it tears families apart. In years gone by, when we trusted the strength of the 'family unit' and the community, everyone had a role, and issues were addressed within that environment.
We have lost our way - brainwashed into believing, we can rely on 'the system' and others to 'fix' the problem, while all the while being caught in a system that promises freedom and realistically, for most, just delivers more pain.
Family Led Change has three steps:
Step 1 - Getting yourself well first. You are no good to yourself, your family or your loved one - when you are anchored in the same emotional chaos & turmoil, lurching from one crisis to the next. Worn out, burn't out driven by your need for things to be different.
Step 2 - Calm - influences calm. When you have found a better way for you - your calm shifts all your relationships. What once was conflict - can now come back into connection. Relationships shift & when you empower and support positive connection, things change.
Step 3 - Acceptance is key - acceptance is not just words, acceptance is powerful. It's all about the Power of Language, Windows of Opportunity and Planting Seeds. Being intentional - is about responding, its about initiating, and it's about what makes things different.
